Taeyeon’s depression
The girl’s depressed you say? Really? How can you say that? I am totally not hating on her but i really don’t believe her and her fans im sorry.
She’s not depressed, Having depression is not a joke.
If you have depression, then how can you perform in front of a stage? If you have depression, how can you talk so freely about it? If you have depression how can you get into a relationship with someone?
Depression is having sleepless nights, red, swollen eyes for crying, weak knees, pulling your hair out of misery, wanting yourself to be alone, not eating, not caring about your appearance, not going out, cutting yourself.
Is taeyeon under that?
Did you ever saw her eyes red? Did you see her knees wobble? Does she have any cuts? How can she go out with Baekhyun? How can she perform on that stage? How can she go out? How can she talk about it?
Depression is not easy to talk about in public.
Just because she’s not smiling it doesn’t mean that she had depression.
And honestly, for me, i think she’s using depression as an excuse. Im sorry for saying this but i think she’s using it as a safety net for her mistakes.
Like she knows that you fans are gonna protect her by saying that she has depression.
Once an issue about her blows, you’re gonna use her depression as an excuse.
Once she made a mistake you’re gonna use her depression as an excuse.
Once she says something wrong you’re gonna use her depression as an excuse.
An excuse, an excuse, an excuse. Stop saying that depression is the root cause of her insensitive actions because she’s not.
Her wrongdoings is not caused by her depression, it can be caused by her attitude, character, or traits.
So shut up. Don’t defend her actions.
Shes an adult for gods sake. She knows what is right and wrong.
softyul coffee-ramen ummm… what do u guys think
this is so fucking ugly…people handle depression in so many ways and literally shut up. depression isn’t a joke, yeah. so you shouldn’t be treating it has a joke and saying it’s an excuse. when you have depression not everyone has to know. people with depression can go outside and smile and talk with friends. people with depression can be in relationships. people with depression can perform and work. everyone with depression has different coping mechanisms. god, this is so insensitive for you to say. just because she doesn’t smile doesn’t mean she is insensitive…lmao male idols always are rude as hell and don’t smile and get away with it. yeah, she has made some mistakes but so what??? she has explained how she feels lonely and alone despite how she has the members supporting her. she explains how people invalidate her feelings BECAUSE she is in snsd. she says how she can’t talk to people because they don’t understand her or her feelings. and you are doing the same exact thing. oh and just saying depression doesn’t always mean you will have suicidal tendencies so shut up :)
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